Tuesday, November 15, 2016

JULY 2016 EDITION

Last Friday night, after dining with friends at a restaurant on the Marietta Square, we decided to walk around the Square. In Marietta, there is a park in the middle of town known as the Square. It has the traditional bandstand, a gazebo and a large fountain in the center. It is usually filled with people on the weekend nights, much like the piazzas in Italy with its wonderful old town flavor to it. Once a month, in the summer, they have concerts. The city closes all but one road around the Square and people gather with their decorated picnic tables and dance the night away. There are literally thousands of people in attendance!

On this particular evening there was no concert, only a young lady performing some sort of dance routine with a number of hula hoops to recorded music in front of the bandstand and, in another area of the park, a young musician playing a guitar.

As we drew nearer the park, we noticed something very unusual. It looked like a scene from the T.V. show, The Walking Dead”! There were scores of people walking slowly around the park, their heads were down and their eyes completely focused on something they were holding in their hands.. I would say, out of the hundreds of people on the Square that night, 75% of them were engrossed in this activity. It was almost frightening. They were truly like Zombies. As we came close to one couple, we found that they were looking at their smartphones. It dawned on me what all these people were doing. They were playing “POKEMON GO” Coincidentally, while having lunch on the Square a couple of days before with one of the staff of Young Life , who works with the Wyld Life Middle School Program in Atlanta, he related that he and four of his middle school friends had come to the Square. They spent two hours playing “POKEMON GO” and said there were nine locations around Marietta where you could play!

Here’s the thing. I still have no concept of how to play POKEMON GO. We did stop three young men who were playing asking them to explain the game. The only thing I could ascertain is that they were chasing some character that was represented as moving on an actual real-time Google map of that location on their phones. It is now my understanding that this is a huge phenomenon. It seems that the success of the game is based on the old notion of the “thrill of the chase”

I wonder…. What are the things you and I might be chasing after? Is it wealth, success, popularity, peace, acceptance, recognition, possessions, power, love, approval, or beauty, to name a few? Where can these things be found? Which ones are important?

 Oh, I have chased most everything I just mentioned but when it all comes down to it, many of the things I considered important in my early years became “chasing after the wind” to quote from Ecclesiastes. It is my contention, however, that the really important things, the things with lasting value, can only be found through a relationship with Jesus Christ. At least, this has been my experience in my seventy years of life. Have you grown tired of “chasing after the wind”? Let’s talk.

MINISTRY NEWS:

 On the same Friday night I mentioned above, I experienced a real sense of joy when, by what I believe was a divine appointment. While in the park, I “ran into” a former Young Life friend, who had been involved with Young Life at Marietta High School as both a student, then later, after graduating from Princeton, as a volunteer leader. It had been almost 30 years since we had seen each other! He is now living in Jakarta, Indonesia, working with the World Bank and is married with kids. He has had some involvement with Young Life there. The fun part of our connection was that he was only in Marietta for another few hours before he returned to Jakarta to prepare for a move to Kuala Lampur in Malaysia. He shared that he had just that day looked at a Bible I had given him as a student. We promised to keep in touch and prayed together right there on the Square. What a joy to see someone I had the privilege of ministering to in high school going on with Christ!

 I had a chance to go to the Young Life camp, Sharptop Cove, in Jasper, Georgia, for a day, to visit several of the staff from the Southeast Region, who were on a month-long assignment there. What a joy to see over 500 high school kids have the time of their lives for a week. I marveled at them as they enjoyed an evening of an old time 19th century county fair, complete with square dancing, lemonade, popcorn and cotton candy booths, throwing pie in their leaders faces, soaking their leaders with water guns, and singing such old favorites as “I’ve Been Workin On The Railroad” and “Oh, My Darlin’ Clementine” and the likes at the top of their voices. They were dressed in period costumes, which they created. For a time, they were kids without pretense, just being kids!

I continue to minister to the staff of Young Life in the Southeast Region both with in-person visits and social media.

 Our Friday Morning Men’s Group continues to meet as it has for twenty-one years.

I continue to meet individually with men for counsel and encouragement.

 I am so very grateful for you making it possible to minister by your prayer, encouragement and financial support.

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Net Work Ministries, Inc. Purpose Statement

The purpose of Net Work Ministries is to bring hope and healing to men and their families by exposing them to the love of Jesus Christ in word and deed. Net Work also encourages men in living out their Christian faith in their day-to-day lives.

Net Work Ministries, Inc. is a pastoral counseling and resource networking ministry that brings God's people together for mutual support and enables them to use the abundant resources He provides. It is directed towards men, to bring them into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and to help them use the power of this relationship to become the men God intended them to be. This ministry helps men deal with issues that affect their everyday lives. It is a faith ministry that depends entirely on the Lord for resources and does not charge for its services. It is a fully accredited 501c3 I.R.S. organization.

Net Work Ministries was begun 1991 by a group of men who knew Buck Reese's giftedness in the areas of pastoral counseling and resource networking. Buck, who is a native of Atlanta, has been in ministry since 1975 and is an ordained minister. He was responsible for starting the Young Life high school ministry in Cobb County in 1977 and served as Area Director for 12 years. Buck was the Director of Church Relations for Rapha, Inc., a Christian counseling program, as well as serving as a pastoral counseling intern at Wesley Woods Geriatric Center. For 20 years Buck served as chaplain and assistant coach of the Marietta High School football team. Buck was selected to be a member of the 1998 class of Leadership Cobb and the 1999 class of the Honorary Commanders, programs of the Cobb County Chamber of Commerce.

Buck's full-time commitment is to Net Work Ministries. He is in contact with men of all ages and walks of life. A typical routine would include: Having breakfast or lunch with a businessman to offer counsel and encouragement to strengthen their commitment to Christ and to enjoy each other's fellowship and support. In all these situations, Buck offers a listening ear and a caring heart and shares Scripture and wisdom given by the Holy Spirit. The goal in all of this activity is to bring those who do not know Christ into a saving relationship with Him. To those who are committed to Christ, but are dealing with issues of day-to-day living, he gives loving and effective counsel, encouragement and support.

Recently, I have added a new role to my ministry. I have accepted the role as volunteer Chaplain to the Staff of Young Life Southeast Region, which consists of the states of Georgia and Alabama. There are currently 50 local area ministries with staff. I will be the"minister to the ministers."

The Concept of Net Work Ministries

From Henri Nouwen’s book “Gracias”:

“It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn’t be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them.

From "The Hole In Our Gospel" by Richard Stearns, President of World Vision:

It is rare that a simple recitation of the gospel will cause people to instantly change their minds. It usually takes much more than that. Our own narrative typically involves a journey of discovery marked by relationships with respected friends and loved ones, reading, discussions, learning about the basis for Christian faith, seeing the difference faith made in the lives of people we know, and witnessing genuine faith demonstrated through acts of love and kindness towards others.

I Stand At The Door - My Calling To Men's Ministry

I Stand at the Door

By Sam Shoemaker (from the Oxford Group)


I stand by the door.
I neither go to far in, nor stay to far out.
The door is the most important door in the world -
It is the door through which men walk when they find God.
There is no use my going way inside and staying there,
When so many are still outside and they, as much as I,
Crave to know where the door is.
And all that so many ever find
Is only the wall where the door ought to be.
They creep along the wall like blind men,
With outstretched, groping hands,
Feeling for a door, knowing there must be a door,
Yet they never find it.
So I stand by the door.

The most tremendous thing in the world
Is for men to find that door - the door to God.
The most important thing that any man can do
Is to take hold of one of those blind, groping hands
And put it on the latch - the latch that only clicks
And opens to the man's own touch.

Men die outside the door, as starving beggars die
On cold nights in cruel cities in the dead of winter.
Die for want of what is within their grasp.
They live on the other side of it - live because they have not found it.

Nothing else matters compared to helping them find it,
And open it, and walk in, and find Him.
So I stand by the door.

Go in great saints; go all the way in -
Go way down into the cavernous cellars,
And way up into the spacious attics.
It is a vast, roomy house, this house where God is.
Go into the deepest of hidden casements,
Of withdrawal, of silence, of sainthood.
Some must inhabit those inner rooms
And know the depths and heights of God,
And call outside to the rest of us how wonderful it is.
Sometimes I take a deeper look in.
Sometimes venture in a little farther,
But my place seems closer to the opening.
So I stand by the door.

There is another reason why I stand there.
Some people get part way in and become afraid
Lest God and the zeal of His house devour them;
For God is so very great and asks all of us.
And these people feel a cosmic claustrophobia
And want to get out. 'Let me out!' they cry.
And the people way inside only terrify them more.
Somebody must be by the door to tell them that they are spoiled.
For the old life, they have seen too much:
One taste of God and nothing but God will do any more.
Somebody must be watching for the frightened
Who seek to sneak out just where they came in,
To tell them how much better it is inside.
The people too far in do not see how near these are
To leaving - preoccupied with the wonder of it all.
Somebody must watch for those who have entered the door
But would like to run away. So for them too,
I stand by the door.

I admire the people who go way in.
But I wish they would not forget how it was
Before they got in. Then they would be able to help
The people who have not yet even found the door.
Or the people who want to run away again from God.
You can go in too deeply and stay in too long
And forget the people outside the door.
As for me, I shall take my old accustomed place,
Near enough to God to hear Him and know He is there,
But not so far from men as not to hear them,
And remember they are there too.

Where? Outside the door -
Thousands of them. Millions of them.
But - more important for me -
One of them, two of them, ten of them.
Whose hands I am intended to put on the latch.
So I shall stand by the door and wait
For those who seek it.

'I had rather be a door-keeper
So I stand by the door.


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Buck is a native of Atlanta. He graduated from Georgia State University with a business degree. He spent 10 years in the restaurant business prior to going into the ministry in 1976. He is an ordained minister. Buck has been married to Peggy for 52 years. He has two married daughters and seven grandchildren ranging in age from six to twenty-five years old . Peggy and Buck have lived in West Cobb for forty years.

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“I have been involved in Net Work Ministries for almost six years. I am privileged to serve on the Board of Directors and work with Buck on a variety of projects i.e.: Young Life, Good Samaritan Health Clinic, P.A.C.E., working with the poor and indigent, and supporting the men who attend Buck’s groups.


Buck and Peggy have been there for my wife Rita and I through our most difficult times. They are always loving, always supportive. Buck and his ministry are a wonderful example of what it means to serve. It’s what the love of Christ encourages all of us to do for each other.”

Dwayne Lambing,
Regional Vice President
Nordco, Inc.



The Friday group began as an opportunity for me to have in depth conversation about subject matter that I was not totally comfortable with i.e. formal religion and my personal relationship with God. I believed intellectually that the universe was not an accidental explosion, but it demonstrated a purpose that only a Creator could know. I felt a part of that universe and was comfortable with my life and the roles I played in it. But I still asked myself, is that all there is to life.

Through a series of very diverse and interesting books it became increasingly apparent that no growth in self is possible without the "pains" of self examination. Sometimes this would occur during the course of "intense" discussions and other times would occur in moments of quiet reflection on these conversations. I began to notice that in this crucible of frank and honest discourse that I could find a voice for my beliefs and at the same time be intellectually true to my beliefs in science.

As it has turned out for me, the books have been less important than the comfort and strength that I find in the relationship of men willing to discuss matters that are not in their comfort zones , and that require an intellectual and emotional honesty that are not found alone on an island.

Thank you for your role in making all of this possible,



Dr. Peter Re’,

Neurologist