We have been having an
interesting encounter with wildlife at our house recently. It seems a female
cardinal has been attacking our breakfast room window as well as a patio wall
ornament. The thing these two items have
in common is they both have reflective surfaces. Apparently, the cardinal is
mistaking the reflective images of herself as a threat to her. She would continue the attacks all day
long. We feared for her safety if this
continued. I solved the patio problem by
taping a piece of white paper over the reflective surface. That seemed to do
the trick. The breakfast room window was a different story. I tried the same
thing that I did with the patio but the bird seemed to find little slivers of
reflection where the paper did not cover. Besides, we did not like having our
window covered. So I decided to be
tricky by putting a picture of a cat in the window thinking that would frighten
her away…no such luck.
What was I to do? It came
to me to call the Chattahoochee Nature Center that was located near our
home. The first advice was to cut out a
silhouette of a hawk and tape it to the window. Well, I am not that artistic. I
called back the next day and spoke with a different person who was very
familiar with our problem. She says this frequently happens at this time of
year. Female cardinals are breeding and they see their reflection as a threat
from another bird: Thus, the attacks. Their wildlife expert recommended that I
put Saran wrap on the outside of the window. She explained that a bird's vision
is different from ours. She would not be able to distinguish the reflection as
another bird. So far, it seems to be
working.
It occurs to me that I can
be much like that female cardinal. I
attack what I think I see in other people when really I am attacking a fault that
I have within me. For instance, I can be
critical of an acquaintance for being negative and judgmental; when, in
reality, I see something in that person that I do not like about myself. In another case, I may accuse a person of
being a poor listener, always responding to my comment with a story about themselves
or "one-upping" me with a better story, never acknowledging what I
had to say. When I stop and listen to
myself sometimes, I realize that, during the course of the conversation, I
monopolized the time talking about myself.
I look back and think how many times I used the words "I' or
"Me." I was always thinking
about what I was going to say rather than actively paying attention to what the
other person was saying.
The old saying is
"When you point your finger at someone, there are three pointing back at
you." Matthew 7:1-5 says, "Do
not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others,
you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no
attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, 'Let
me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your
own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then
you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." James
4:12(b) says," But you. Who are you to judge your neighbor?"
Lord, help me to learn a lesson from the cardinal. Put some
Saran wrap before my eyes, so that I cannot see what I perceive as faults in
others in order that I may more clearly see the faults that lie within me.
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existence since 1995. We meet men during the week work breakfast and lunch to
minister individually to their needs. We are ministering to some of our nation's
heroes through an annual Wounded Warriors Golf Outing, which will be held this
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We
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