Wednesday, September 26, 2012

SEPTEMBER 2012 EDITION



I HATE CANCER!
It has robbed many of my friends and relatives of a decent quality of life and even life itself.  Both my parents died of cancer.  Some of my friends are now battling this insidious disease.  It takes its toll on the families of victims of cancer as well.  Some physicians fight the disease with surgery; others fight with chemicals, both with varying measures of success. I have friends who are in remission and have been that way for many years.  We are confident that they are healed from cancer.

Science has not yet established a cause for many types of this illness.  The cause may be environmental or genetic.   We do know that some cancers are "self-inflicted."  Those who smoke are much more likely to contract cancer.  Both my parents smoked for many years and both died of lung cancer.  Cigarette packages are now required to carry a warning about the link between smoking and cancer.  Sadly, there are consequences for our blatant disregard of warnings. We all surely pray that one day soon a cure for this horrible disease will be found.  There are millions and millions of dollars being spent on researching the elimination of this dreaded illness with advances in the fight being made each year.  We pray for a cure.

There is another form of cancer.  This type infects us all.  The descriptor for this disease is labeled "Romans3:23." (Also known as the Sin Syndrome) "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.)"  No one is immune.  It is in our genetic make-up.  It carries with it a death sentence.  Its effects manifest themselves in many ways.  Some are very visible; others, not so much.  We try very hard to treat the symptoms ourselves, but, alas, in the end, we find that we are helpless to do anything about them.  Sadly, the symptoms quickly return.

 Fortunately, for us, centuries ago, a Great Physician called Jesus Christ affected a permanent solution to the problem.  Its descriptor is "John3:16."  ("For God so loved the world that He gave His Only Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.")

What did it cost Him?  It cost Him his own life to bring us this remedy. "For while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8)  What does it cost us?  It should have cost us our lives but He paid our bill in full in advance.  It was a gift!  "The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 6:23)  

To begin the process of healing, we need only to admit that we have this terminal illness.  In addition, we must admit that we cannot cure the disease ourselves and accept the remedy He has given us.  It is necessary for us to trust that His remedy is effective.  We should understand that we may still exhibit some symptoms of the disease, but we can "nip them in the bud" so to speak.  We are no longer subject to final, terminal effects of this terrible scourge on humanity.

What should be our response to the healing that has taken place?
We should live the rest of our lives in gratitude for what our Great Physician has done.  As the first act of each day, each of us should thank Him. We should enthusiastically refer our friends and loved ones to Jesus' care, sharing what He has done for us well as introduce them to Jesus Christ so they can begin a relationship with Him.  Those of us that have accepted His remedy should gather on a regular basis to thank Him and tell Him how great we think He is.  We can expectantly look forward to the day when this disease will be fully eradicated.  There will be no more suffering, sickness, pain or tears.("I am coming soon." Even so come Lord Jesus!" (Revelations 22.20)

Ministry News and Notes
What a joy it has been for the last twenty years to serve the needs of men and their families through the vehicle of Net Work Ministries!  I have been blessed by the prayers, love, support, and  words of encouragement that you have shared with me.  I pray I might continue to be worthy of the same for however long the Lord would have me serve Him through this ministry.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

AUGUST 2012 EDITION



I was sitting in church yesterday feeling quite "hip" using the Bible "app" on my IPhone rather than an actual physical  Bible. However, I hit the wrong button and the passage that the pastor was speaking on suddenly was being read aloud on my IPhone.  Now, this is after a previous experience in another church that we were visiting where my phone rang to alert me to an incoming call. The ring tone was church bells! This, too, occurred during the minister's sermon. To make matters worse, after I had cut the sound off, supposedly, another tone rang out alerting me to a voicemail message waiting. At that time, the phone was new to me and I did not know of the tiny silence switch on the side of the phone. Peggy was mortified. I was a wreck. Fortunately, we did not know anyone in the church.  We left immediately after the service and have not returned!

You would have thought I would have learned from the first experience to hit the small "kill switch".  Actually, I did that, well before the service started. Unfortunately, as I discovered, the Bible "app" works independently of that switch! I actually panicked at first and sat on my phone, trying to hide the noise. Finally, I found the volume switch and reduced the volume to zero. This time, Peggy was so kind. She just patted me on the hand gently, as if to say, "It is o.k., my dear, technologically challenged husband. I love you any way." My IPhone will be left in the car before entering a church or other gathering from now on!

Isn't it just like us to think we are in control. We have "all the bases covered," then, "Wham," something unexpected happens.  Those instances tell a great deal of our character.  I am ashamed to say I did not handle the first event well at all. After the voicemail tone rang, I muttered a expletive, in church, no less!  The Bible admonishes us to be "quick to listen, slow to anger and slow to speak" (James 1:19) Now, you probably handle those little incidents better than I do. Chapter Three of the Book of James, verses 1-13 is entitled, "The Taming of the Tongue."  At this time in my life, I am still "slow to listen, quick to anger, quick to speak!" I need prayer in this area of my life.  I am learning, but slowly.  As the bumper sticker says, "Please be patient with me. God is not finished with me yet!"
                                                                                                                                                                           
There are things like the tongue and our responses to the challenging events in our lives that we can and should control to live more godly lives. However, we are called also to recognize God's sovereignty over all our lives. As I have quoted before, "For In Him, we live and move and have our being." (Acts 17:28)  We are challenged to surrender all to Him and in so doing, be blessed.
MINISTRY NEWS

October 1st, 2012 will officially mark the 20th Anniversary of Net Work Ministries.  I am grateful for those men and women who have given direction, prayed for and supported this ministry, many of whom have stayed with us from the beginning until now.  God willing, we will still be at it 20 years from now.

We are always seeking new opportunities for ministry to men and their families. If you have a male friend or relative who would benefit by having someone walk alongside them in the midst of their struggles, please feel free to call. If you know guys who are looking to form a small group and need a facilitator, call me. If you need someone to facilitate a men's retreat, call me. I can be reached at either 678-986-4814 or 770-422-8638 or e-mail me at buckreese41@yahoo.com.

Our Friday Morning Men's Group that meets at 7:00 a.m. at The Men's Grill at Marietta Country Club is beginning a new series based on the book, "For Men Only, A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Needs of Women" It is an open group.
Unless you are a guy who completely understands women, you might benefit from this series!  Join us.

I am grateful to all of you for your years of friendship, support and encouragement.